The Fault In Our Teachers

When I read the book of Dr. James Dobson “A New Dare To Discipline” as if I found a new friend who comforted me that I was not the only one to eye when students failed. These words from his book which I will be quoting are really an eye opener to those who put teachers as frontliners at war. Words that I think we really need to reconsider and ponder before our mouths utter words of ignorance.

Here it goes…

“Before we leap to blame the educators for everything that has gone wrong, however, we need to take another look at the culture. The teachers and school administrators who guide our children have been among the most maligned and underappreciated people in our society. They are the easy target for abuse. They are asked to do a terribly difficult job, and yet they are criticized almost daily for circumstances beyond their control. Some of their critics act as though educators are deliberately failing our kids. I strongly disagree. We would still be having serious difficulties in our school if the professionals did everything right. Why? Because what goes on in the clasroom cannot be separated from the problems occuring in society at large.”

“Educators certainly can’t be blamed for the conditions our kids are in when they arrive at the school each day. It’s not the teachers’ fault that families are unraveling and that large numbers of their students have been sexually or physically abused, neglected, and undernourished. They can’t keep kids from watching mindless television or R-rated videos until midnight, or from using illegal substances or alcohol. In essence, when the culture begins to crumble from massive social problems that defy solutions, the school will also look bad. That’s is why even though I disagree with many of the trends in modern education,I sympathize with the dedicated teachers and principals out there who are trying to do the impossible on behalf of our youngsters. They are discouraged today and they need our support.”

The fault is not in the stars.

Why there is no such thing as Ending?

All good things must come to an end.

In his book “The Spirit of Leadership”, Harrison Owen made a point that nothing really is built to last. There comes a time to let go of everything and make a new beginning. But when you’re on the bridge of no return what path should you ought to take?

In his explanation on the six stages of grief at work he made emphasize on the ending. Why ending is so important to moving on. Why when it is over it is really over.

“Endings are the necessary precursors to new beginnings. One simply cannot get on with whatever is coming next until and unless the present passes. This thought suggests that in avoiding the fact of ending and death, one misses out not only on the fulfillment of present reality but also on the opening of the next act.”

When we deny the reality we keep our eyes closed to the meaning of the event that is suppose to keep us moving and make another chapter of the story going on.

“Ending is simultaneously the fulfillment and the fracturing of the finite forms, then avoiding the end is avoiding the meaning and purpose for which something was created.”

Ending is not really the end.

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Why there is no such thing as Ending?

All good things must come to an end.

In his book “The Spirit of Leadership”, Harrison Owen made a point that nothing really is built to last. There comes a time to let go of everything and make a new beginning. But when you’re on the bridge of no return what path should you ought to take?

In his explanation on the six stages of grief at work he made emphasize on the ending. Why ending is so important to moving on. Why when it is over it is really over.

“Endings are the necessary precursors to new beginnings. One simply cannot get on with whatever is coming next until and unless the present passes. This thought suggests that in avoiding the fact of ending and death, one misses out not only on the fulfillment of present reality but also on the opening of the next act.”

When we deny the reality we keep our eyes closed to the meaning of the event that is suppose to keep us moving and make another chapter of the story going on.

“Ending is simultaneously the fulfillment and the fracturing of the finite forms, then avoiding the end is avoiding the meaning and purpose for which something was created.”

Ending is not really the end.

Pretty Annoying

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I really like this picture. It’s pretty annoying. When you make fun of yourself in the presence of somebody it means you are comfortable with his/her presence. Her/his presence is a gift because you can bring out your imperfections in life and these imperfections are perfect in his/her eyes. Don’t take yourself seriously. Our imperfections are the reasons we are loved. So enjoy it..! Be imperfect.

What he’s teaching me so far?

He came and then I suddenly loved him. Yes! This boy who just walked into my life showed me the importance of staying and not leaving someone when he is most broken. It hurts to stay when everybody thinks it’s wrong but it hurts more to leave the person who made you realize the greatest lesson of your life.

They don’t understand but it doesn’t matter because their views and opinions and even their presence don’t matter for the reason that they know not what they are suppose to know.

I’m learning and I will be staying to show you that to really love a person is not more of leaving him or her to be happy with others but stay with him or her because you are enough to be his or her center of happiness.